Year End seems to be the good time to be consciously slowing down as well as the perfect time for reflection even if it's only for a short period. I find that it's so easy to get caught up in all of the "need to do" and "must do it now" things in my life - especially while playing the fragile balancing act and game of work, motherhood, wife, being part of a large family and friend. And the Christmas / Holiday season often adds to this stress for many of us.
In November I began toying with the idea of taking the last two weeks of December off to focus "on" my business which means to slow down long enough to reflect on what I want it to be in 2007, the reality of what is true for it now and the current gap that exists. I also wanted to take time to tie up the personal things that pile up between Thanksgiving and Christmas - such as managing our family finances, getting that huge pile off my desk, writing and getting the family holiday newsletter out to my 250+ list, pour the plum cordial we've been aging into pretty bottles for gifts, etc.
The impetus for all of this was simply remembering back to last year and the previous year and remembering all of the running around that seems to pop up out of now where - ok, we all know it's out of the need to figure out gifts, holiday schedules, figuring out when Eli's or your child's classes begin their winter break, extra dinners, cooking, socializing, etc. Whew, just writing about it brings me back to those feelings the the who reason why I want the time off.
The first week of December I announced to my clients via an email that I was taking the last two weeks of the year off from client work - it felt and feels like a luxury. This year is the first time I dared such a feat of spending and focusing two weeks of time on my own pursuits since I became a home based internet mom, coach and consultant 6 years ago. In retrospect I don't know why it seemed to be such a difficult decision.
What I've learned so far....
Expect the unexpected - isn't this really what life is about...going with the ebb and flow?
- I had one client that I felt I really needed to meet with my first day off so that I could move into the rest of the time without a lot of energy being sucked out because it was unfinished business






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